Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Refinished


I spent the last few days refinishing a couple pieces of furniture. Thankfully, I had a friend around who had some experience; he taught me a lot through the process. First, we stripped and re-stained a cedar trunk. My idea was to paint it, but my friend agreed with my wife: you don’t paint cedar. The wood is too nice to cover up! And whaddya know they were right. It’s beautiful!



Now I’m painting a pine bookshelf. Pine is one of those woods that often looks better when it’s covered up. So now it’s white.

This afternoon I started thinking about a parallel. Jesus talks about white-washed tombs…

Matthew 23:27-28
New International Version (NIV)
   27 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of the bones of the dead and everything unclean. 28 In the same way, on the outside you appear to people as righteous but on the inside you are full of hypocrisy and wickedness.

A white-washed tomb is a lot like my pine bookshelf. You can put a little paint on the surface, and you don’t notice the blemishes. In fact, a painted pine bookshelf wouldn’t look any different than a painted cedar trunk. But when you strip away the paint, what’s underneath the two provides a sharp contrast. The cedar is so beautiful on the “inside” that you put stain on it, which soaks deep into the wood, and rather than hiding what’s under the surface, it draws it out. And the finished product boasts about its grain.

We all know how to put on a nice finish coat of white paint. We know how to make it look like we have it all together. But what would happen if you stripped away the cover-up? What would be revealed? Are you just a white-washed tomb, or are the grains of your character worth exposing… even highlighting?

Thursday, March 8, 2012

Are We Getting It Wrong?

Last fall I watched a documentary on youth ministry called "Divided." It rocked me... made me ask some tough questions. Questions whose answers could potentially shake my future dramatically.



If filmmaker Philip Leclerc is right, I've spent the last 10 years working with students with unbiblical methods, and the last 2 years of studying youth ministry have been wasted. So I went back to Deuteronomy 6 to take a closer look and to see what I had missed.

The premise is that in Deut. 6:4-9 Moses is teaching that it is the parents responsibility to disciple their children,  not an age-segregated youth ministry! Back in October of last year, Greg Stier posted his response to the movie, and a lot of youth ministry advocates loved watching him stand up for his "little brother." The article is worth the read because Stier makes a great case against the movie. But he misses on one point. Stier writes, "Deuteronomy 6:4-9 was written to dads and moms, not youth leaders and sponsors. The gravity of God’s command through Moses to the people of Israel still reverberates for parents today."


Read the passage yourself.


 4 Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. 5Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. 6 These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. 7 Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. 8 Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. 9Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.


Who exactly is Moses addressing here? Is he instructing the parents of individual family units on how to disciple their children?  "Hear, O [individual families of] Israel..." The Israelites were about to enter the promised land, so maybe Moses assumed that each individual family would be abundantly blessed with multiple houses and gates. I seriously doubt it. I hear Moses challenging a nation, an entire community of believers, to raise up a new generation that would love God. Israel was a community, and they raised their young as a community. Youth ministries are a part of that community as are institutions such as families and schools. Whether or not you agree with her politics, Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton got this one right: it takes a village to raise our youth.

Glad to know I'm not working against God as I seek to love students and their families.